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Stop Saying “Calm Down” to Angry Customers—What to Do Instead call center de-escalation call control customer service de-escalation Jun 25, 2025

We’ve all been there: A customer is venting, repeating themselves, or escalating fast. You’re trying to stay composed and guide the conversation—but then something slips out:

 

“Calm down.”

“My supervisor will just tell you the same thing.”

“I’m just trying to help.”

“Ma’am, if you’ll just l...

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Stop Training for the Sake of Training: What Do You Want Your Team to Know, Feel, and Do? customer service training customer service training design Jun 23, 2025

Have you ever sat through a training session and wondered, "What's the point of all this?" You're not alone. As customer service professionals, we're often bombarded with training that feels more like a checkbox exercise than a genuine opportunity for growth. But what if I told you there's a simple ...

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The First 30 Seconds Can Make or Break the Customer Experience building rapport with customers call center telephone skills call center training Jun 16, 2025

Before you explain the policy

Before you pull up the account

Before you “solve the issue”


The most important thing you can do is connect.

And that connection?
It starts in the first few seconds—with your tone, your words, and the emotional energy you bring to the conversation.

Whether you’re c...

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Supporting Customers When English Isn’t Your First Language: 3 Confidence-Boosting Tips call center training Jun 16, 2025

Are you a customer service professional working in English, but it's not your first language? You're not alone. Many of us face the challenge of communicating effectively in a language we're still mastering. But here's the good news: you don't need perfect English to provide excellent customer servi...

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The Psychology of Pronouns: A Simple Way to Make Live Chat Sound More Human live chat best practices Jun 10, 2025

In the world of live chat, every word counts. One tiny tweak in language can mean the difference between a cold, robotic interaction and a warm, human connection.

đŸŽ„ I just released a short video that reveals one of the most overlooked psychological tools in digital support

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Ditch the Robotic Routine: 3 Live Chat Pitfalls to Avoid for Happier Customers live chat best practices Jun 08, 2025

Have you ever found yourself frustrated with a live chat support experience? You're not alone. Despite being designed for quick and efficient customer service, live chat often falls short of expectations. But here's the good news: it doesn't have to be this way. Let's dive into why most live chat su...

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How to Deliver Bad News Without Sounding Cold how to deliver bad news Jun 02, 2025

Delivering bad news to customers is never easy. It's a delicate dance that requires finesse, empathy, and a clear communication strategy. Whether you're dealing with a delayed shipment, a product discontinuation, or a policy change, the way you deliver this information can make or break your custome...

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What to Say When the Customer Won’t Stop Talking call control linkedin learning May 27, 2025

A confident, respectful way to guide the conversation—and protect your time.

You know the call.
You greet the customer with warmth, ask how you can help—and then they’re off to the races.

They’re talking.
And talking.
And talking.

They circle the same issue multiple times.
They add in backstory, ...

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Bounce Back Better: The Post-Call Reset for Resilient Customer Service Professionals mental health in contact centers May 20, 2025

Have you ever hung up the phone after a difficult customer call and felt like you were still carrying the weight of that interaction? Like a heavy backpack you can't seem to take off, the stress and negativity linger, affecting your mood and performance for the rest of the day. If this sounds famili...

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We Get the Behavior We Tolerate—How to Hold the Line When Customers Cross It call control May 09, 2025

What do you do when a customer is being condescending and disrespectful—but you still have to help?

 

That’s the question a customer service professional asked me recently, and it stopped me in my tracks. Because I know how common—and how tough—this situation is. You’re doing your job. You’re show...

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Regain Control: 4 Strategies to ‘Get Off the X’ with Difficult Customers how to handle difficult customers May 05, 2025

Do you ever feel like you're caught in the crossfire of a customer's frustration? As if you’re standing in front of a fire hose, overwhelmed by a torrent of complaints? It’s time to learn a crucial strategy from the Secret Service that can help you regain control and transform those heated interacti...

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How to Wrap Emotional Customer Calls Faster-Without Sounding Cold call control Apr 27, 2025

Have you ever wanted to know how to wrap up a call with a customer when you have no solution, and the customer's feeling some kind of way?

 

You know those moments when your customer isn't angry or argumentative, but instead feeling completely deflated? It’s a delicate scenario that demands a more...

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