When the Customer Starts Cussing: How to Stay Grounded, Set the Line, and Lead the Call how to handle difficult customers phrases for handling difficult customers Jul 24, 2025

The call came in like any other.
But within seconds, it shifted.

“This is [bleep] ridiculous. You people are [bleep] clueless.”

No preamble. No warm-up. Just heat.
You’ve had a call like that. Most of us have.

And when it happens, your nervous system knows it before your brain does.

Your shoulde...

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Turning Down the Temperature: Defusing Tense Calls with Thoughtful Phrasing call control linkedin learning Jul 20, 2025

Have you ever found yourself in a customer service call that suddenly took a turn for the worse? We've all been there, and it's not a pleasant experience for anyone involved. But what if I told you that there are specific phrases that can derail a call faster than anything else? After training over ...

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From Chaos to Clarity: Confident Call Handling in 3 Simple Steps call control Jul 13, 2025

Ever feel like you're stuck in a never-ending customer service call? You know, the kind where you're repeating yourself, the customer is going in circles, and your average handle time is skyrocketing? I've been there, and I know it's frustrating. But here's the thing: fast, focused calls aren't abou...

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What to Say When the Answer Is No (Without Getting Yelled At) how to say no to a customer Jul 06, 2025

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you need to say "no" to a customer, but you're worried about how they'll react? You're not alone. As customer service professionals, we often face the challenge of setting boundaries while maintaining a positive relationship with our clients. The goo...

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How to Shut Down a Rude Customer—Without Losing Your Cool customer service de-escalation how to handle difficult customers phrases for handling difficult customers Jun 27, 2025

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a customer is being downright disrespectful, but you still have to help them? It's a challenging spot that many customer service professionals face daily. You're doing your job, staying calm, and suddenly it feels like you're under attack. You're not...

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Stop Saying “Calm Down” to Angry Customers—What to Do Instead call center de-escalation call control customer service de-escalation Jun 25, 2025

We’ve all been there: A customer is venting, repeating themselves, or escalating fast. You’re trying to stay composed and guide the conversation—but then something slips out:

 

“Calm down.”

“My supervisor will just tell you the same thing.”

“I’m just trying to help.”

“Ma’am, if you’ll just l...

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Stop Training for the Sake of Training: What Do You Want Your Team to Know, Feel, and Do? customer service training customer service training design Jun 23, 2025

Have you ever sat through a training session and wondered, "What's the point of all this?" You're not alone. As customer service professionals, we're often bombarded with training that feels more like a checkbox exercise than a genuine opportunity for growth. But what if I told you there's a simple ...

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The First 30 Seconds Can Make or Break the Customer Experience building rapport with customers call center telephone skills call center training Jun 16, 2025

Before you explain the policy…
Before you pull up the account…
Before you “solve the issue”…

The most important thing you can do is connect.

And that connection?
It starts in the first few seconds—with your tone, your words, and the emotional energy you bring to the conversation.

Whether you’re c...

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Supporting Customers When English Isn’t Your First Language: 3 Confidence-Boosting Tips call center training Jun 16, 2025

Are you a customer service professional working in English, but it's not your first language? You're not alone. Many of us face the challenge of communicating effectively in a language we're still mastering. But here's the good news: you don't need perfect English to provide excellent customer servi...

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The Psychology of Pronouns: A Simple Way to Make Live Chat Sound More Human live chat best practices Jun 10, 2025

In the world of live chat, every word counts. One tiny tweak in language can mean the difference between a cold, robotic interaction and a warm, human connection.

🎥 I just released a short video that reveals one of the most overlooked psychological tools in digital support

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Ditch the Robotic Routine: 3 Live Chat Pitfalls to Avoid for Happier Customers live chat best practices Jun 08, 2025

Have you ever found yourself frustrated with a live chat support experience? You're not alone. Despite being designed for quick and efficient customer service, live chat often falls short of expectations. But here's the good news: it doesn't have to be this way. Let's dive into why most live chat su...

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How to Deliver Bad News Without Sounding Cold how to deliver bad news Jun 02, 2025

Delivering bad news to customers is never easy. It's a delicate dance that requires finesse, empathy, and a clear communication strategy. Whether you're dealing with a delayed shipment, a product discontinuation, or a policy change, the way you deliver this information can make or break your custome...

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