We Get the Behavior We Tolerate—How to Hold the Line When Customers Cross It call control May 09, 2025

What do you do when a customer is being condescending and disrespectful—but you still have to help?

 

That’s the question a customer service professional asked me recently, and it stopped me in my tracks. Because I know how common—and how tough—this situation is. You’re doing your job. You’re show...

Continue Reading...
Regain Control: 4 Strategies to ‘Get Off the X’ with Difficult Customers how to handle difficult customers May 05, 2025

Do you ever feel like you're caught in the crossfire of a customer's frustration? As if you’re standing in front of a fire hose, overwhelmed by a torrent of complaints? It’s time to learn a crucial strategy from the Secret Service that can help you regain control and transform those heated interacti...

Continue Reading...
How to Wrap Emotional Customer Calls Faster-Without Sounding Cold call control Apr 27, 2025

Have you ever wanted to know how to wrap up a call with a customer when you have no solution, and the customer's feeling some kind of way?

 

You know those moments when your customer isn't angry or argumentative, but instead feeling completely deflated? It’s a delicate scenario that demands a more...

Continue Reading...
How to Spot the Right Time to End a Call—and Lower AHT call center telephone skills call control Apr 11, 2025

Have you ever found yourself in that awkward moment at the end of a customer call, unsure whether to keep talking or wrap things up? You're not alone. Many customer service professionals struggle with recognizing the right time to close a conversation, leading to drawn-out calls and potential frustr...

Continue Reading...
Validate, Don't Absorb: Empathetic De-escalation for Resilient Service Pros customer service de-escalation how to handle difficult customers mental health in contact centers Mar 31, 2025

As customer service professionals, we're often praised for our empathy. It's what allows us to connect with customers, understand their frustrations, and provide genuine support. But for those of us who are natural empaths, this gift can sometimes feel like a double-edged sword. We don't just hear o...

Continue Reading...
Defusing "I Want a Supervisor": The 3-Step Solution for Customer Calm customer service de-escalation how to handle difficult customers Mar 24, 2025

We've all been there. You're on a call with a frustrated customer, doing your best to help, when suddenly they drop the dreaded line: "I want to speak to your supervisor." Your heart sinks. Escalating won't change the outcome, but pushing back might worsen things. So what's the right move?

 

Here'...

Continue Reading...
Mastering the 10-Second De-escalation: The Acknowledgment Pause Method Mar 16, 2025

Have you ever felt like you're walking on eggshells during a tense customer interaction? We've all been there. It's that moment when you can feel the frustration building, and you're desperately searching for the right words to say. What if I told you there's a simple, science-backed technique that ...

Continue Reading...
If Saying 'No' Feels Awkward - Watch This! how to deliver bad news Mar 06, 2025

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you need to say "no" to a customer, but you're worried about damaging the relationship? You're not alone. As customer service professionals, we often face the challenge of delivering bad news or setting boundaries while maintaining a positive rapport...

Continue Reading...
Delivering Bad News to Customers? Do This Instead of Apologizing. how to deliver bad news Mar 04, 2025

Have you ever experienced that racing heart when delivering bad news to a customer? Trust me, you’re not alone; this is a common challenge in customer service. However, let me assure you: delivering bad news can actually strengthen customer relationships. I’ve witnessed this transformation countless...

Continue Reading...
Here's How to Give a Customer Bad News In Live Chat Support how to deliver bad news live chat best practices Feb 24, 2025

Delivering bad news to customers is one of the toughest challenges in customer service. Whether you're informing them that their order can’t be changed or that a much-loved product is unavailable, these moments can be delicate and have the potential to escalate if not approached thoughtfully. But wh...

Continue Reading...
Don't Apologize to Customers (Do This Instead) how to apologize to a customer Feb 18, 2025

Have you ever found yourself in a sticky situation with an angry customer, feeling like you're walking on eggshells? We've all been there. It's a challenging moment that can leave even the most seasoned customer service professionals feeling flustered. But what if I told you there's a simple yet pow...

Continue Reading...
From Rage to Resolution: The 3-Step Snatch and Flip for Customer Calm call control customer service de-escalation how to handle difficult customers Feb 11, 2025

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a customer is venting their frustrations, and you struggle to regain control of the conversation? We've all been there. It's a challenging moment that can leave even the most experienced customer service professionals feeling overwhelmed. But what if...

Continue Reading...

Join Myra’s Inner Circle: Insights, Strategies, and Resources for Leaders Who Demand the Best.

Be the first to receive exclusive strategies, curated resources, and behind-the-scenes insights from Myra Golden—crafted for leaders who value excellence.