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The 5 Habits We Must Dodge When De-escalating Angry Customers call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation de-escalation Sep 24, 2023

When a customer is unhappy, how you respond can distinguish between a minor hiccup and a full-blown escalation. Here are five things you should avoid when dealing with upset customers.

One. Refusing to Admit the Customer’s Perspective

Never tell a customer they are wrong. If you tell a customer th...

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Here Are My Answers to Your De-escalation Questions call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation Sep 24, 2023

I sourced my subscribers for the most pressing de-escalation questions. 

See my answers!

 

For more help with de-escalation, check out my De-escalation Academy.

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The Power of Positive Language: How it Can Transform Live Chat and Phone Calls building rapport with customers call center telephone skills live chat best practices telephone skills training Sep 21, 2023

People will forget what you said.
People will forget what you did.
But people will never forget how you made them feel.

Maya Angelou said that.

You can create rapport with customers and even preempt escalations using the right words and tone. The wrong words or attitude puts customers on the defensi...

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10 Fun and Creative Ways to Celebrate National Customer Service Week celebrating national customer service week national customer service week Sep 19, 2023

 You know I'm all in for National Customer Service Week! Here are ten ways you can celebrate your team!

 

One. Have Your CEO come to your contact center and take phone calls!

When I managed a contact center, I invited our CEO to spend 15 minutes on the phone, surrounded by our representatives, an...

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Unleash the Power of Appreciation: The Ultimate Guide to Celebrating National Customer Service Week celebrating national customer service week national customer service week Sep 19, 2023

National Customer Service Week is just around the corner, and it's time to celebrate the unsung heroes of the business world – customer service representatives. These dedicated professionals are the backbone of any successful organization, ensuring customers receive the support and assistance they n...

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From Explosive to Appreciative: Unlock the Secrets to Handling Angry Customers with Ease customer service de-escalation de-escalation for customer service Sep 19, 2023

In the ever-evolving world of customer service, one skill has become increasingly critical: the ability to de-escalate tense situations. As a customer service representative, you're bound to encounter disgruntled or irate customers at some point in your career. De-escalation for customer service...

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Getting Angry Customers to Back Down Sounds Like: (a 45-second read) call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation de-escalation de-escalation for customer service Sep 18, 2023

Redirecting. "Here's what we know. Here's what we've done. Here's what's next."

Validating. "I can see your point on that," or "We want to get to the bottom of this as much as you do."

Explaining why you can't do what they want. "The FDA doesn't allow optometrists to refill expired contact lens pr...

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Customer Temper Tantrums Can Look Like This call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation de-escalation for customer service Sep 18, 2023

Customer Temper Tantrums Can Look Like This

  • Over-talking you
  • Demanding to talk to your supervisor
  • Cursing you out
  • Refusing to listen to you
  • Threatening to slam your company on social media
  • Name-calling
  • Explosive reactions

Here's how you handle the customer who is having a tantrum: 4 Step...

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Help Me Design My New Live Chat Support Course live chat best practices Sep 18, 2023

I'm creating a new online course focusing on helping chat support agents create rapport with customers, preempt escalations, and drive interactions to closure faster! Tell me what you want in a live chat support course so I can make it awesome. 

Click here to give me your feedback here!

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Mastering the Art of Assertiveness: Winning Over Angry Customers with Confidence how to handle difficult customers Sep 14, 2023

 

In this video, I'll show you how to assert yourself with your approach and your vocal tone, so customers take you seriously and accept your word as final. 

Assertiveness is to:

Say what you mean.

Mean what you say.

Don't be mean when you say it.

 

Assertive Tone

It's important that cust...

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Use More Personal Pronouns to Make Live Chat Friendly live chat best practices Sep 07, 2023

No single language choice makes live chats and emails sound more human than well-chosen pronouns. 

 

Personal pronouns are: I, me, you, we, us, he, him, she, her, they, them.


You already use personal pronouns every day in texts and in conversation. We all talk with the natural, casual tone tha...

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