Customer Service Employees Are Therapists, Cops, Negotiators, and Conflict Resolution Experts. call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation de-escalation Sep 24, 2023

Is every other customer demanding, “Get me a manager?”

Do you find your customers more intense?

Are your employees burning out or quitting?

It’s not just you. Everyone is seeing this change.

I just read this quote from the New York Times.

“The meanness of the public has forced many ...

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The 5 Habits We Must Dodge When De-escalating Angry Customers call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation de-escalation Sep 24, 2023

When a customer is unhappy, how you respond can distinguish between a minor hiccup and a full-blown escalation. Here are five things you should avoid when dealing with upset customers.

One. Refusing to Admit the Customer’s Perspective

Never tell a customer they are wrong. If you tell a customer th...

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Getting Angry Customers to Back Down Sounds Like: (a 45-second read) call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation de-escalation de-escalation for customer service Sep 18, 2023

Redirecting. "Here's what we know. Here's what we've done. Here's what's next."

Validating. "I can see your point on that," or "We want to get to the bottom of this as much as you do."

Explaining why you can't do what they want. "The FDA doesn't allow optometrists to refill expired contact lens pr...

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How to Sound and Feel Confident When De-escalating Angry Customers call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation de-escalation how to handle difficult customers May 26, 2023

One of the most challenging aspects of customer service is dealing with angry and upset customers. Often, these situations can escalate quickly, leading to negative consequences for both the customer and the company. This article will explore customer service de-escalation techniques to help you sou...

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5 Comebacks for the Customer Who Tries to Intimidate You customer service de-escalation de-escalation how to handle difficult customers May 13, 2023
Some people use bait tactics to try to get what they want. They'll say something to get you to react. They're trying to take your power so that they're in control.

A lot of the time, when a customer uses profanity or yells, they're baiting you. They have the upper hand if they can throw you off, ge...

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57 Phrases to De-escalate Any Angry Customer call center de-escalation customer service cheat sheets customer service de-escalation de-escalation how to handle difficult customers May 07, 2023

What can you do to get an angry customer to stop screaming and actually listen to you? I have a few tips and tactics for preempting escalations and getting customers to accept your words as final. I've divided this post into the challenging situations you'll likely encounter, so you can feel con

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Conquer Tough Conversations: Master Aikido Techniques to Tackle Difficult Customers with Ease de-escalation how to handle difficult customers verbal aikido May 06, 2023

As a seasoned professional in any industry, you've likely encountered your fair share of difficult customers. These challenging interactions can overwhelm you, frustrated, and sometimes downright exhausted. However, handling a difficult customer is a crucial skill for success in any customer-facing ...

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How to Debrief After a Difficult Call with a Customer de-escalation how to handle difficult customers May 06, 2023

It can be emotionally draining to deal with challenging customer interactions. I cannot overstate the importance of debriefing and decompressing after a difficult interaction. Here are my suggestions for leaders and frontline employees on how to process and learn from these experiences:

 

For lead...

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Stop the Domino Effect: Expert Insights on Curbing Escalations in Your Call Center de-escalation de-escalation training May 01, 2023

Customer Service Is Hard Work!

With empathy and a smile, customer support teams must give bad news, deal with angry people, and de-escalate intense interactions. Your team - and you- deserve support, and it's my pleasure to serve YOU!

I've designed customer service training for some of the world's...

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Positive Positioning Can Help You De-escalate Intense Interactions with Customers. Here’s how. de-escalation de-escalation training May 01, 2023
 

We took my son’s phone in for repair. After looking at the phone, the employee said. “Liquid has come in contact with this phone. Your warranty doesn’t cover this, but we have several options. We can repair the unit, or we can sell you a refurbished model.”

While I wasn’t happy to learn that we’...

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What to Say When a Customer Cusses at You and Other Tough Situations de-escalation q & a Apr 30, 2023

  

Grab the What to Say When a Customer Cusses at You and 4 Other Tough Situations Worksheet.

Will you help me?

I’m working on a De-escalation project to prepare frontline professionals like you for the COVID-19 Holiday Season.

Help me make this training relevant to you by answering...

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Another Way to Say 'No' to a Customer de-escalation de-escalation training how to say no to a customer Apr 30, 2023

 

In my De-escalation Academy today, I taught how to politely yet firmly say ‘no’ to a customer. I call the method “U S A.” I’m sharing with you the very teaching from today’s workshop.

Try out U S A and let me know how it works. For more ideas like this, check out De-escalation Academy.

Pra...

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