How to Sound and Feel Confident When De-escalating Angry Customers call center de-escalation customer service de-escalation de-escalation how to handle difficult customers May 26, 2023

One of the most challenging aspects of customer service is dealing with angry and upset customers. Often, these situations can escalate quickly, leading to negative consequences for both the customer and the company. This article will explore customer service de-escalation techniques to help you sou...

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Master the Magic of Partnering Language: Your Ultimate Guide to Diffusing Tense Conversations and Soothing Panicked Customers how to handle difficult customers May 15, 2023
 

Use Partnering Language to Create Calm and De-escalate Intense Interactions (Especially now, when customers are panicked) 

When a customer reaches out to you about a problem, they usually don’t think things will be easy. They expect to have to push for what they want.

To customers, it’s t...

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5 Comebacks for the Customer Who Tries to Intimidate You customer service de-escalation de-escalation how to handle difficult customers May 13, 2023
Some people use bait tactics to try to get what they want. They'll say something to get you to react. They're trying to take your power so that they're in control.

A lot of the time, when a customer uses profanity or yells, they're baiting you. They have the upper hand if they can throw you off, ge...

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When the Customer's Tone or Language Puts You on the Defensive, Here's What I Want You to Do. how to handle difficult customers q & a May 09, 2023

Here's a transparent and great question from one of my subscribers.

 

Question

How do I keep calm and maintain the right tone when a caller uses foul language and puts me on the defensive?

 

My answer 

First, it's entirely normal to feel defensive when we're disrespected. I love that you're aw...

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57 Phrases to De-escalate Any Angry Customer call center de-escalation customer service cheat sheets customer service de-escalation de-escalation how to handle difficult customers May 07, 2023

What can you do to get an angry customer to listen to you? I have a few tips and tactics for preempting escalations and getting customers to accept your words as final.

I have divided this post into challenging situations you will likely encounter. With my phrases, you can feel confident, talk asse...

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Conquer Tough Conversations: Master Aikido Techniques to Tackle Difficult Customers with Ease de-escalation how to handle difficult customers verbal aikido May 06, 2023

As a seasoned professional in any industry, you've likely encountered your fair share of difficult customers. These challenging interactions can overwhelm you, frustrated, and sometimes downright exhausted. However, handling a difficult customer is a crucial skill for success in any customer-facing ...

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How to Debrief After a Difficult Call with a Customer de-escalation how to handle difficult customers May 06, 2023

It can be emotionally draining to deal with challenging customer interactions. I cannot overstate the importance of debriefing and decompressing after a difficult interaction. Here are my suggestions for leaders and frontline employees on how to process and learn from these experiences:

 

For lead...

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10 Expert Tips for Handling Upset Customers with Ease how to handle difficult customers Apr 29, 2023

Introduction to Handling Upset Customers

One of the most challenging aspects of customer service is dealing with upset customers. Customers can become frustrated and even angry if they have received a faulty product, poor service, or misunderstood a company policy. As a customer service representat...

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THIS TIP WILL Reduce AHT (Average Handle Time) BY MOVING CUSTOMERS OUT OF VENTING call control how to handle difficult customers Apr 28, 2023

 

 Contact Center Agents have contacted me twice in the last week for help in reducing Average Handle Time (AHT). I’m listening, and I have an answer. I say “an answer” because I’ll share more solutions in the coming weeks.

You can move customers out of venting, rambling, and storytelling u

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Top 3 Ways to Calm Angry Customers de-escalation de-escalation training how to handle difficult customers Apr 25, 2023

I had an inspiring video meeting with a long-term client I started working with in 2018. My client is now at a new company, and she reached out for de-escalation training. It turns out I’m already working with her new company for de-escalation train-the-trainer.

My client, thrilled that...

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What do you do when a customer threatens self-harm (in a phone call or email)? how to handle difficult customers Apr 22, 2023

People in my workshops ask, “What do I say when a customer threatens suicide?” 

Customers in distress are stressful for customer support teams. 

When customers threaten self-harm or harm to others, they’ve taken the interaction outside the boundary of sincere conversation.

Understand ...

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6 Ways to Boss Customer Service Calls how to handle difficult customers telephone skills training Apr 18, 2023

 

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